Dear family:
David is down in Jackson, Mississippi for this week, where the temperature is
in the triple digits. Here in Bethlehem it is in the very comfortable seventies,
just delightful. In fact, it really is too cool to go to the pool, so we are not
getting the full use of our pool passes this summer. I like it to be in the
nineties for outdoor swimming. Anyway, David is attending his second (and final)
year of new staff training.
Daniel, Peter, and Stephen leave tomorrow for French Creek camp – the older
boys are counselors and Stephen is a camper. Quite a few of our church young
people will be there this week. Since Christopher is attending vo-tech school in
the day this week, the house will be very quiet! I think Ben will be quite bored
and clingy. I have been considering how to best use the time but I’m sure it
will include at least one park outing.
I last wrote in the morning of July Fourth. I talked everyone into going as a
family to the pool that afternoon. As it turned out, Daniel was called by KFC
because they wanted him to purchase and help set up their computer that day. He
did show for a brief dip before both boys left for evening shift there. David
embarrassed the children by deciding that he should read the Declaration of
Independence at the pool, but they ended up finding it a rather interesting
document after all. In lieu of a picnic (I had done so much cooking for
houseguests) we opted to eat at KFC, served by Dan and Pete, and finished the
day by watching fireworks from the Broad St. bridge.
The summer seems to be the time when we have a lot of appointments. Between
car inspections, eye doctor check-ups, and dental visits we do a lot of running
around with little to show for it. Coming up are the boys’ physicals (a repeat
for Peter since he just had one a few months ago for his working papers but
needs another one for sports participation) which also chew up an extraordinary
amount of time. I have had MAFA staff meetings, and David is on the sanctuary
renovation committee at church so he has had a slew of extra meetings, too.
All of us drove to New Jersey for a day with the Fletchers. Some of it could
qualify as a business meeting because they are board members in the weekly
school where David taught biology this past year, and he had a student who
(allegedly) cheated on the final exam – by pasting David’s own class notes
outline from the web site directly onto the exam! It has involved a lot of
discussion about how to fairly handle this case. We went to their community pool
which makes ours look like a dump, and it was such a beautiful day that we were
loathe to leave. My contribution to the meals was dessert – a couple of pies
and cheesecake – which we only made a dent in since Susan had fed us so well.
I left the desserts down there which appalled the boys so I have been baking
more pies and cheesecake to make it up to them. By now we are berried out.
In the midst of all the happy stuff, we have been saddened by the death of
James Boice, our pastor at Tenth Presbyterian in Philadelphia. He was diagnosed
with liver cancer on Good Friday, and died exactly two months later, though he
was one of the most physically fit people we know. The silver lining to this
cloud of loss is that we have spent some time remembering his role and influence
in our lives with gratitude.
Speaking of gratitude... I received a gift to take the women from my church
(who helped serve the anniversary buffet) out to lunch, so we went after our
Wednesday morning Bible study last week. Most of them are teenage girls, and
they really enjoyed the "grown-up" feeling of going out to a fancy
lunch. Our summer study has gone very well, and so has the evening summer
institute. I may not be getting much school preparation done, but I am getting
to know our church members better.
The big project around here has been the front porch. The wood was rotting in
places, and after consulting with various people, we went ahead and arranged to
have a concrete porch poured. This then mushroomed into replacing the sidewalk,
which had been broken up by the maple tree, which then further developed into
bringing down the maple, which is decayed and dropping large limbs. The motley
crew that is doing the work fascinates Ben, and he watches them for hours. The
head guy is very outgoing, loud, and friendly, and is obviously fond of having
such a devoted audience. Since the guys work without shirts on, Ben has been
going shirtless and strutting around in perfect imitation of their manner. He
will really miss them, although the neighbors may feel otherwise! David plans to
plant some shrubs and grass when he returns, but it will be another month until
the porch railing and posts get put back up. It is a big encouragement to me to
see the improvement. Next on the list (which may mean in a year or two or
three!) is the garage, which the contractor told us is leaning and badly needs
siding.
In a belated burst of enthusiasm, David planted the rest of our vegetable
garden just before he left, so if the fall is mild enough, we may have a late
crop. In this area we have benefitted from Christopher’s babysitting job at
the Krick’s, as they are gardeners par excellence and have shared their bounty
with us.
News from the boys... Daniel and Peter report that some middle-aged man came
through the drive- through at KFC one night in his birthday suit. They usually
work six nights a week, which one would think would have put a crimp in their
social life but they have managed an extraordinary amount of golf, movies, and
hosting of friends. I never know when I will find a cluster of teens in my
kitchen looking for something to eat. Dan has been doing some computer work for
us, installing a DSL line so our phone lines are not tied up anymore with
computer traffic. Hopkins just raised 1.52 billion dollars, 100 million given by
Michael Bloomberg (Daniel is a "Michael Bloomberg Trustee Scholar") so
his financial aid package is intact, which is a relief. We had been a little
nervous after reading about the bait-and-switch approach to financial aid that
some colleges use – giving large awards to freshmen and then drastically
reducing the package in future years.
Peter is also doing computer work for David, designing our web site. He has
been accepted into Lehigh Valley Christian High School (aided by a discount for
pastor’s kids) and so we will have someone in an "official" school
for the first time in fifteen years of homeschooling! There are rumors that this
was all initiated by his desire to get out of French class (LVCHS has only
German and Spanish) but may also have something to do with his plan to try out
for the soccer team next month.
Christopher completed one week of vo-tech school last week. He is going again
this week at his own expense because he likes it so much. He took classes in
Auto Body, Auto Tech, Plumbing, and Electronics. He was a big hit at yesterday’s
church picnic due to taking along the guinea pigs. I went up an eensie weensie
bit in his estimation because I finally read a novel he recommended to me. That
makes me think of something...I think our local paper hit an ALL TIME LOW when
the front page, lead article
was that a local boy bought a book at a bookstore and some pages were
missing. I suppose the editor thought that because it was the new Harry Potter
book it was newsworthy. And speaking of the local paper hitting an all time low,
I should mention that we were interviewed and photographed for a feature on
homeschooling. They are scraping the bottom of the barrel for news, I guess.
Stephen can’t think of anything I should include about him. He
etched 2000 in the new concrete, had me cut his hair in Daniel’s style, is
doing some school work in a desultory manner, and suffering under the onerous
chore of having to pick up the record number of apples that are falling in our
back yard.
David talked me into having a free session with the fitness trainer at the
YMCA, who wrote up a 3X per week strength training program based on my condition
(weakling). This has provided much amusement for the boys, who love to watch me
struggle with 20 pound weights and think it funny that my stretching exercises
take longer than the weight training. I’m not sure I have the resolve to
continue this once school begins in earnest; I’ll let you know if I enter any
body-building contests!
Time to help the boys pack for camp...